My Boyfriend is Insecure About His Size Does Size Matter ? Do Girls Care About Size ? Average Size Of a Manhood

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Men are so concerned about their penis sizes. They often connect their self-esteem to the size of their penis. Well, it is extraordinary and hilarious why men are so insecure about this issue and why society has created manhood around it.
The most strange thing here is women have nothing to do with your penis size. Their only complaint on the bed from you is always rushing to intercourse without much foreplay, which women love and crave the most.

In this Article, We Learn Some Facts About the Insecurity of Males About Penis Size, Does Size Matters, Do Girls Care About Size, and Most Importantly, the Average Size Of a Manhood. So Here It Goes:

  1. Penetrative intercourse is considered as only real sex

It is the biggest misconception among men that they can only arouse or satisfy women with deep penetration. And to perform deep penetration functions, they always crave big penis sizes. They have just demeaned the absolute pleasure of foreplay; unfortunately, most men don’t even know how to perform foreplay. Sex is always good with free exploration and expression, but men don’t want to be open about their thoughts with their partners. And for God’s Sake, upgrade your knowledge on the actual definition of Sex because Intercourse is just a part of sex, not everything.
You can refer to the blog section of Sidri International Skin Hair & Sexology Clinic. They have explained women’s psyche and what they want or desire.

  1. A big of hype around about big dick

Yes, this is real hype because the truth is far beyond this. All men die to have a big penis size, and you can see your fellows when they proudly boast about their big penis size.
Our society inclines toward a big penis size and likes to make fun of small dimensions. And just because men are ignorant that penis size doesn’t hold any advantage in having good sex, they also develop mental stress. A man with 3 to 4 inches can perform a satisfying sex drive if mixed with creative tricks of foreplay. Remember that a big penis size sometimes hurts,s and women don’t like it. Actually, “bigger the better” is presumed valid in every sense, but it doesn’t hold any value in this sense. Girth sometimes matters, but if you don’t have one, please don’t take it as a shortcoming.

  1. As a heterosexual man, you don’t know the size of other men’s penis

We are going to put some hilarious angles into this. It is true, as a man who loves a partner of the opposite sex doesn’t even know the size of other men’s penis.
And when they see it, it is always in porn movies, where the guys have an enlarged penis size. Please don’t compare with these guys; they are professional and scarce to find. Most of us don’t have that big size, which is also not required anyways. Keeping a distance from people who often debate Big Penis Size is advisable. Don’t feel discouraged and come into the world of reality.

  1. Big penis size is only suitable for a visual

Yes, this is true because a big penis size doesn’t have any advantage apart from good vision.
And as per the psyche of women, they don’t feel good when they have an oversized penis and sometimes fear how they can take it.
As per some girly facts, a small or average-sized penis is good to play with. Rest is on your mind, boys and men.

  1. Big size has become an image of manhood or masculinity

Men are in a big delusion that their penis size is related to their manhood. And if they are not man enough, society won’t respect them.
If someone is deep into the thought that he is not man enough, he can’t keep a woman happy in bed.
Whether or not you want to admit it, your manhood is derived from your emotional intelligence and your will to lead something.
So keep this unwanted pressure away from your mind; these false definitions of manhood are made by society for their cheap entertainment.

  1. Men can’t increase their penis size.

Unfortunately, you can get bigger biceps, chests, and thighs, but you can’t increase your penis size. But when it doesn’t matter, then why do you want a bigger one???
Some things can’t size, and mother earth has included this in those things. If someone is claiming, they can help you increase your penis size. They only claim this to earn money by playing with your emotions. Even though the size of the penis can’t be changed (Without Surgery, Of Course, as it is Expensive and Slightly Risky), many men fall prey to Scammers. These people will give you only medicines for Erections, which can’t help in getting a bigger size.

 

If you have some Erection Problems like Erectile Dysfunction or Discharge Problem Like Premature Ejaculation, then consult Dr. Manu Rajput and Dr. Kanu Rajput without any second thoughts.
Their esteemed knowledge of the root causes of sex issues and how to cure them with ayurvedic medicines and diet is on another level.
As mentioned, no safe treatment for penis enlargement is available in modern medical science or Ayurveda. But still, many are advertising pills, creams, supplements, etc., for increasing girth.
But unfortunately, these treatments are not medically proven and, in the worst scenario, may pose a threat to your Sex Health. Sometimes, a person offering such pills is not even from Medical Background. They are just working as a seller and selling these pills illegally. Please avoid taking these pills; they do more harm than good.
And patients who have gone through the use of penile extenders and traction devices often complain of disfigurement, lumpiness, and infection.
For example, Penis Pumps which are often advocated as a Penis Enlargement tool, sometimes help with Erectile Dysfunction (note- this therapy also has many side effects).
Yes, we are human beings, not machines or robots; something in us can’t change. So it is better to be satisfied with what you have.
Instead of developing insecurity about your penis size, focus and explore the natural tricks of sex fantasies and try something new to please your partner on the bed.
If you want any tips on how to keep your sex life healthy and if you have any questions about the Sexual Problems You Are Facing, then consult online with Dr. Manu Rajput and Dr. Kanu Rajput.

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Dr. Kanu Rajput
Managing Director & Chief Formulator
Sidri International Skin Hair & Sexology Clinic

Qualifications:
B.A.M.S. (Ramakrishna Ayurvedic Medical College, RGUHS, Bengaluru)
Reg. No.: 32413 – Karnataka Ayurvedic and Unani Practitioners’ Board

Specialization:
Dr. Kanu Rajput is an Ayurvedic Sexologist and Customised Medicines Specialist with over 11 years of focused experience in men’s sexual & reproductive health in Delhi and across India. He creates personalised, non‑hormonal, non‑habit‑forming Ayurvedic formulations to support conditions such as balanitis, recurrent candidiasis, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, phimosis and other men’s sexual health concerns that require careful evaluation and, where needed, referral for tests or standard medical treatment.

His approach combines classical Ayurvedic pharmacology with modern diagnostic collaboration, so that each formulation is tailored to the patient’s condition, body type and treatment response. He writes and updates this content to explain how Sidri International uses customised medicines as part of structured, non‑surgical, diagnosis‑based care pathways rather than as generic or one‑size‑fits‑all remedies.

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Dr. Manu Rajput
Managing Director & Chief Ayurvedic Consultant
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Qualifications:
B.A.M.S. (J D Ayurvedic Medical College & Hospital, CSJM University, Kanpur)
Reg. No.: DBCP/A/7694 – Delhi Bharatiya Chikitsa Parishad (2011)

Specialization:
Dr. Manu Rajput is an Ayurvedic Sexologist and Men’s Health Specialist with over 15 years of clinical experience in non‑surgical management of men’s sexual and reproductive health issues in New Delhi. His day‑to‑day work involves detailed history‑taking, Rog Pariksha (diagnostic assessment) and treatment planning for conditions such as balanitis, candidal infections, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, phimosis, paraphimosis, low sperm count and broader men’s health concerns.

He medically reviews this content to ensure that the explanations of symptoms, evaluation steps, non‑surgical options and indications for referral are consistent with Sidri International’s current clinical protocols, safety standards and ethical boundaries. This review process helps keep the information accurate, practical and aligned with how real patients are assessed and managed in the clinic.

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Level 1 vs Level 2: Which is right for you?

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60‑second decision rule

Start with Level 1 if you have one main concern and it is recent (about 1–4 weeks). Choose Level 2 if you have 2+ core conditions together, or your concern is months/years, or you match any Direct Level 2 situation.

All conditions we treat

Erectile Dysfunction (ED), Premature Ejaculation (PE), STDs & STIs, Low Sperm Count, Male Infertility, Phimosis, Paraphimosis, Candidiasis, Candidal Balanitis, Candidal Balanoposthitis, Balanitis & Balanoposthitis, Penile Yeast Infection, Low Libido, Genital Warts, HIV Doubt Counselling, Nightfall, Performance Anxiety, Gonorrhoea, Chlamydia.

Core conditions (Level 1 or Level 2)

Erectile Dysfunction (ED), Premature Ejaculation (PE), Phimosis, Low Libido, Male Infertility, Low Sperm Count, Performance Anxiety.

Usually Level 1 (visible / infection-type conditions)

Balanitis & Balanoposthitis (including candidal), candidiasis / penile yeast infection, other penile infections, STDs/STIs (including visible concerns), paraphimosis, nightfall/wet dreams, genital warts, and similar visible/skin/infection concerns.

Fees

Level 1: INR 1500 per slot. Level 2: INR 7000 total = INR 5500 (Online Assessment & Evaluation) + INR 1500 (Conclusive Consultation).

Same fee for everyone

We keep the same consultation fee for everyone; it does not change based on your city/country, nationality, profession, income level, or social status (student, salaried professional, businessman, or public figure).

Why we ask your location

Please share your current country/city and time zone honestly—this helps scheduling and helps us guide you better about medicine availability/courier options (if required).

Direct Level 2 situations

Unconsummated marriage; pre‑marital performance worry; international/NRI/outstation patients with sexual issues (Level 2 recommended for structured evaluation); dhat‑type worry and similar long‑standing or complex concerns; combined problems such as ED + PE, ED + PE + Phimosis, Phimosis + ED, PE + performance anxiety, low libido + ED, infertility concern + ED/PE (any 2+ core issues together).

Media / supporting inputs (Level 1 visible conditions)

For infections/skin/foreskin/visible STI lesions/warts/phimosis/paraphimosis: clear close‑up photos may be requested when needed (typically flaccid; erect only when clinically relevant). No partner is involved—only the patient. If you are not comfortable sharing a required input for that level, do not choose/book that level; you may choose a different level (with limitations) or consult elsewhere.

Media / supporting inputs (Level 2 core conditions)

For ED/PE/phimosis/low libido/fertility‑related/performance anxiety: the doctor may request supporting inputs when needed (pattern details, relevant reports such as a semen analysis if already available, and sometimes private photos/videos if clinically required). No partner is involved—only the patient. We never ask for any intercourse video. If you are not comfortable sharing a required input, do not choose/book Level 2; choose Level 1 (with evaluation limitations) or consult elsewhere.

Consent

By booking a level, you agree to its information requirements (including photos/videos where needed). If you do not agree, do not book that level.

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Your payment reserves professional time and starts your consultation workflow, so payments are non‑refundable, non‑transferable, and not adjustable. This applies to consultation fees and also to any treatment/procedure fees (if applicable).

WhatsApp group (Level 2 only)

We keep one group for tracking. If deleted/exited, restart required (same fee applies).

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Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

Erection is not hard enough, not lasting, or difficult to get repeatedly.

Premature Ejaculation (PE)

Ejaculation happens too quickly; difficulty delaying; frustration/stress due to timing.

Phimosis

Foreskin is tight and does not retract easily; pain/tightness; redness or repeated irritation/infections under foreskin.

Low Libido

Low interest in sex; reduced desire/thoughts; sex feels forced or “not in mood” often.

Male Infertility

Trying for pregnancy for a long time without success; may have no symptoms except difficulty conceiving.

Low Sperm Count

Usually known from semen report; may be linked with difficulty conceiving.

Performance Anxiety

Fear of failure; overthinking during sex; erection issues mainly with partner due to stress.

Nightfall (wet dreams)

Semen discharge during sleep; frequent episodes causing worry or weakness feeling.

Dhat syndrome type worry

Excess worry about semen loss (in urine/nightfall) with anxiety, weakness feeling, or sexual concerns.

Repeated UTI‑type symptoms

Burning urination, frequent urination urge, lower abdominal discomfort; episodes keep coming back.

Unconsummated marriage

Unable to have intercourse after marriage due to fear, pain, erection issue, or penetration difficulty.

Pre‑marital performance worry

Strong fear “what if I fail the first time” causing stress symptoms before marriage/first intercourse.

Paraphimosis

Foreskin pulled back and stuck behind the glans; swelling and pain/tight ring (needs urgent evaluation).

Candidiasis / Penile Yeast Infection

Itching, redness, burning; white deposits/discharge sometimes; recurrent irritation.

Balanitis / Balanoposthitis

Redness/swelling/pain of glans (and foreskin); burning, odor/discharge sometimes.

STDs / STIs

Discharge, burning urination, sores/ulcers, rash; sometimes no symptoms (tests may be needed).

Genital warts

Small bumps/growths on genitals; may increase over time.

HIV Doubt Counselling

Anxiety after exposure; confusion about risk/testing windows; repeated fear.

Gonorrhoea

Burning urination; yellow/green discharge sometimes; testicular pain sometimes.

Chlamydia

Often no symptoms; burning urination/discharge sometimes; testicular discomfort sometimes.

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Proper time with doctor (face-to-face clarity)

The consultation is the same kind of structured discussion you would do face‑to‑face—history, symptoms, timeline, and clear explanation—but on a call many patients feel less anxiety/pressure and can describe the real situation more comfortably.

Better comfort & privacy

You can consult from home, avoid travel/waiting, and speak more openly about sensitive problems.

Real‑life performance understanding

In a normal clinic visit, erection or ejaculation cannot practically be observed; a structured history of what actually happens at home gives a more realistic understanding.

White‑coat anxiety reduced

Many people cannot get or maintain an erection in a clinical environment due to anxiety; discussing from home reduces pressure and helps describe the real situation.

Time, travel and cost saved

No commuting, no waiting, no repeated visits just for follow‑ups; helpful for working professionals, outstation patients and NRIs.

After‑office convenience

You can usually coordinate consultation timing around office hours.

Follow‑up becomes easier

Follow‑up consultations can be done via WhatsApp/call, with the same consultation fee per follow‑up slot (INR 1500).

Transparency (tests, labs, pharmacies, medicines)

We do not do tie‑ups with labs or pharmacies for commissions, so if tests are needed you may choose any reputable lab of your choice. You may also buy prescribed medicines from any Ayurvedic store you prefer—offline or online; only the consultation fee is charged by us. Customised Ayurvedic medicines (when recommended after evaluation and mutually agreed) are prepared separately and charged separately.

Verified trust (reviews)

Before booking, you can read patient feedback on Practo, Lybrate, JustDial and Google Reviews to understand our consultation process and patient experience.

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What you get

A structured consultation focused on symptoms and case history—similar to what you would share face‑to‑face.

Consultation time (slot + usual duration)

Level 1 is booked as a 20‑minute paid slot (INR 1500). In most cases, the doctor may extend the consult to around 20–30 minutes if medically needed to understand your situation and explain clearly; in rare cases it may finish in 15–20 minutes if everything is already clear. If time gets misused due to repeated/irrelevant questions (or adding new issues), an additional paid slot may be required so the next patient’s appointment time is respected.

Best suited for

One main issue, early-stage concerns, and visible/skin/infection-type penile conditions that can be evaluated well with clear close‑up photos when needed.

What happens next

The doctor explains the concern, advises lifestyle/hygiene changes when needed, and provides a prescription-based plan; medicines (if any) are paid by the patient separately from any Ayurvedic store/website of their choice.

Follow‑ups

Follow-up consultations are available when needed and are charged at the same consultation fee per slot (INR 1500).

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What Level 2 is

A deeper Online Assessment & Evaluation followed by a Conclusive Consultation, designed for complex or long‑standing sexual health concerns.

Who should consider Level 2

Not improved after Level 1, months/years of problems, multiple sexual issues together, unsatisfactory self/other treatments, unconsummated marriage, pre‑marital performance worry, or NRI/international/outstation patients in these categories.

What is evaluated (safe wording)

Multiple aspects of sexual function and difficulty patterns (erection quality, ejaculation timing, desire, anxiety/stress factors, and penetration‑related difficulty as described in history). We never ask for intercourse videos, and we do not ask for any partner‑involved content.

What you submit

Detailed case history with answers to guided questions, plus photos/videos or other supporting inputs when required so the main problem and severity can be understood accurately.

Conclusive consultation

Findings and severity are discussed, then the doctor helps decide whether prescription medicines and/or customised Ayurvedic medicines are suitable, and what the next steps and expected commitment look like.

Conclusive consultation duration

The conclusive consultation is booked as a paid slot (INR 1500), and may extend up to around 40–50 minutes when the doctor feels it is necessary to explain properly; in rare cases it may finish earlier if everything is already clear. If time is misused or many new issues are added, an additional paid slot may be needed to protect other patients’ appointment times.

Fees

Level 2 total = INR 7000 (INR 5500 for Online Assessment & Evaluation + INR 1500 for Conclusive Consultation).

Validity & discipline

Level 2 payment is valid for 30 days. Within this period, you must share the required details/media so the conclusive consult can be meaningful and timely; delays beyond the validity may require re‑payment and restarting the process.

WhatsApp group continuity (Level 2 only)

For Level 2, we keep communication in one WhatsApp group so everything stays clear and trackable in writing for your benefit. If the group is deleted/exited, the process must be restarted and the same fee applies again.

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Level 1 (visible / infection-type)

For visible penile skin/inflammation/infection concerns (balanitis/balanoposthitis including candidal, candidiasis, penile yeast infection, visible STI lesions, genital warts, phimosis/paraphimosis), clear close‑up photos may be requested when needed (typically flaccid; erect only when clinically relevant).

Level 2 (functional / pattern-based)

For ED/PE/performance anxiety and some complex cases, the doctor may request short, private supporting media only when needed to understand patterns better; it is never an intercourse video and never involves a partner.

Comfort & consent

Only what the patient is comfortable sharing is requested, and it is used only for medical evaluation as part of the consultation. If you are not comfortable sharing a required input for that level, do not book that level; you may choose Level 1 with limitations (where applicable) or consult elsewhere.

No partner involved (important)

Any requested photos/videos must be of the patient only. No partner should be present or involved, and we never ask for intercourse videos. Share only what the doctor asks for, and you may keep the frame limited to the affected area only (no face, no identifying background).

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